Can Keeping a Journal Make You Happier?

From psychologytoday.com

By Roger Kreuz Ph.D

Writing about the bad can be good for you

Journaling can have long-term benefits

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Many people associate diary-keeping with the tortured musings of adolescents dealing with romantic crushes or social isolation.

There is some truth to this stereotype, since a 2023 survey by Statista found that fully one fifth of American participants aged 14 to 25 engaged in journaling to help them manage their mental health. Yet adults actually may do so at even higher rates: a 2025 YouGov survey found that only 47 percent of respondents said they “never” write about their personal thoughts.

But what makes this activity so popular? The simple answer is that it seems to make you feel better.

This intuitive belief has been the subject of much research on what researchers call expressive writing or emotional disclosure. Crucially, this refers to writing down one’s feelings and reactions as opposed to just recording the events of one’s day.

What Research Tells Us About the Benefits of Emotional Disclosure

James Pennebaker, a psychologist at the University of Texas, conducted pioneering work on this topic beginning in the 1980s. He and his collaborators asked college students to write about traumatic personal experiences for short periods across several days. Compared to a control group writing about mundane topics, those who had written about their significant emotional experiences were found to benefit in a variety of ways.

Across Pennebaker's studies, it's been demonstrated that the expressive writing participants report lower levels of distress and depression, fewer physical symptoms, and even better grades. The researchers also documented, in follow-ups with these participants, fewer visits to physicians and even long-term immune function improvements in the days and months following their expressive writing (Pennebaker, 1997).

In other words, writing about emotional events may not just make you happier—it may also make you healthier.

Researchers later combined the results of many similar studies to conduct meta-analyses of this research. Frattaroli (2006) included 146 studies in her analysis and found small but significant beneficial effects for expressive writing. A later meta-analysis by Guo (2023), which included studies employing longer-term follow-ups, also reported a beneficial effect.

In 2009, UCLA psychologist Matthew Lieberman and his collaborators described a possible physiological mechanism to explain why such writing is helpful. Research participants in a neuroimaging study were asked to provide a verbal label for an affective display, such as an angry face. Compared to a control group, these participants showed greater activity in a part of the brain that dampens the neural activity associated with strong emotions (Lieberman et al., 2007).

In other words, the act of identifying or describing negative emotions may help to attenuate them.

Does Writing Always Help Us Feel Better?

It should be noted, however, that expressive writing isn’t some magical elixir. One important caveat is that, immediately after writing about traumatic events, participants in research studies frequently report feeling worse—not better.

This phenomenon was first noted by Pennebaker and Beall (1986), and several later studies have also observed this effect. Some researchers have reported that the negative feelings may persist for an hour or two—making it comparable to the short-term decline in mood after watching a sad movie.

Still, even these brief episodes of negative affect may be one of the reasons that so many people abandon journaling or keeping a diary after only a few days. This is unfortunate, because it means that they never reap the long-term benefits of writing about their feelings.

It’s also the case that people who tend to ruminate—that is, those who engage in repetitive and prolonged thinking about negative experiences—may be adversely affected by engaging in expressive writing.

A study by David Sbarra and his collaborators found that, among research participants who had recently separated from a spouse, those who scored high on a measure of rumination reported more distress following sessions in which they wrote about the dissolution of their marriage. In addition, these negative effects persisted for up to nine months following the writing sessions (Sbarra et al., 2013).

Another study found that an expressive writing intervention during the COVID-19 pandemic had the effect of elevating participants’ stress levels, and these effects were still seen at a one-month follow-up (Vukčević Marković et al., 2020). However, this result may only obtain when people are experiencing a high degree of fear or uncertainty—such as during a global health crisis.

In general, however—for most people and most of the time—writing or journaling about one’s emotional experiences can pay lasting dividends. Short-term negative effects are typically transitory, and the benefits can be long lasting.

References

Frattaroli, J. (2006). Experimental disclosure and its moderators: A meta-analysis. Psychological Bulletin, 132(6), 823-865.

Guo, L. (2023). The delayed, durable effect of expressive writing on depression, anxiety, and stress: A meta-analytic review of studies with long-term follow-ups. British Journal of Clinical Psychology, 62(1), 272-297.

Lieberman, M. D., Eisenberger, N. I., Crockett, M. J., Tom, S. M., Pfeifer, J. H., & Way, B. M. (2007). Putting feelings into words: Affect labelling disrupts amygdala. Psychological Science, 18(5), 421-428.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/small-talk-and-big-questions/202608/can-keeping-a-journal-make-you-happier

Is the Group Chat the New Diary? Why So Many Women Process Life There First

From realsimple.com

Diaries are a thing of the past, but group chats are busier than ever 

Key Takeaways

• For many women, the group chat has replaced the diary as the first place to sort through feelings, offering instant comfort, perspective, and the sense that someone is always there.
• That speed and support can be helpful, but when every feeling is run through other people first, it becomes easier to chase reassurance than to figure out what you actually think.
• The healthiest balance is to use the chat for connection without letting it replace private reflection, so venting leads to clarity instead of keeping you stuck in the same loop.

“Can I vent real quick?”

It’s a text sent in group chats so often it has practically become ritual. A modern permission slip for emotional release. Whether it’s frustration with a partner, confusion over a friendship, workplace drama, or simply the weight of an anxious thought, the process is almost always the same: someone sends a message into the chat, the typing bubbles begin, reactions flood in, and within minutes, reassurance arrives. 

A heart emoji. 
A “dw you’re not crazy”
A “no because i would’ve done the same thing”

The emotional transaction is immediate. The weight lifts. The validation lands. 

For many women, the group chat has quietly become what the diary once was: the primary place where emotions are processed, identities are shaped, and life is narrated in real time. But unlike a diary, which demands solitude and introspection, the group chat transforms emotional processing into something collective, reactive, and constantly affirmed by others. 

And in many ways, that changes not only how we communicate, but also how we understand ourselves. 

Diary Vs. Group Chat

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Before phones became extensions of ourselves, many of us had diaries. Mine went everywhere with me: school trips, vacations, sleepovers, even from my bedroom to the living room. It had one of those tiny locks that implied I had deeply classified information inside, when in reality it mostly contained dramatic entries about middle school friendships and whichever boy I claimed to crush on that month. 

Still, it held everything. Almost every thought written out, painstakingly detailed. 

Every frustration with my teachers. Every family argument. Every moment that felt catastrophic at age twelve. I would write until my hand hurt, close the diary, lock it shut, and somehow feel lighter afterward. The relief came not from being validated, but from externalizing the thought itself. 

What made diaries powerful was the privacy of them. Writing forced reflection. Even when recounting something dramatic, there was an unavoidable level of self-examination involved. You weren’t just documenting events; you were shaping a narrative, deciding what mattered, replaying your own behaviour back to yourself, and immortalizing an event in the way you chose to in the confines of this diary. 

A diary was messy, emotional, and often irrational, but it was still deeply personal. It existed without audience participation. 

Somewhere between adolescence and adulthood, though, that ritual disappeared. The diary was replaced by the phone, and eventually, by the group chat.

As technology evolved, so did our emotional habits. Our problems became more layered, our lives moved faster, and our desire for support became immediate. The group chat answered that need perfectly. Instead of sitting alone with our thoughts, we could process them collectively and in real time. 

That shift fundamentally changed the nature of emotional processing itself.  We moved from private reflection to collaborative interpretation. From inner dialogue to instant feedback. 

From asking ourselves how we felt to asking a group of people to help us decide how we felt. 

The Need For Immediate Processing

The rise of the group chat mirrors the rise of immediacy in every other part of modern life. We stream entertainment instantly, order food instantly, and receive information instantly, so naturally, emotional reassurance has begun operating in the same way. 

As digital communication becomes faster and more constant, our emotional lives have followed suit—turning to our devices not only to share experiences, but to seek comfort, reassurance, and perspective in real time.

Researchers have begun describing this shift as “digital emotion regulation,” a field examining how technology has changed the ways people manage and respond to emotions. In a 2020 paper published on this shift, psychologists argued that people increasingly use technology not simply to communicate, but to actively manage and shape their emotional experiences. 

We no longer wait to process experiences before sharing them. We share them as they are unfolding.  

A voice note recorded while crying in the car.
A screenshot sent seconds after a text exchange. 
A play-by-play breakdown of a date before the Uber ride is even over. 

And that shift has changed the way we make sense of our emotions. Instead of sitting with a feeling before deciding what it means, we now often invite others into the process immediately. The group chat has become a live emotional processing centre where thoughts can be shared before they are fully formed. 

At its best, this creates connection. The group chat offers perspective, support and the reminder that we are not alone. Reactions, responses, and opinions arrive within seconds, providing a sense of comfort and validation that a diary could never provide. 

However, there is also a trade-off. When we process emotions through the reactions of others before understanding them ourselves, we can start looking outward for clarity instead of inward for reflection. Validation can help us feel seen, but it can also shift the focus from understanding an emotion to confirming it. The feeling may be acknowledged, but not always fully processed because the answer arrives before the reflection does. 

Psychologists, like Amanda Rose, have studied this dynamic through the concept of “co-rumination,” or the tendency to repeatedly discuss and revisit problems with others, speculating about them, and focusing on negative feelings. Research suggests that while co-rumination can strengthen friendships and create feelings of closeness, it can also keep people focused on the problem rather than moving through it. 

And that’s what makes group chats uniquely powerful: they don’t just document our emotions; they can shape how we interpret them. 

Unlike diaries, which require silence and patience, group chats create a constant feedback loop. At their best, these spaces can be deeply supportive. Women are often turning to other women who share similar lived experiences: dating disappointments, workplace sexism, friendship dynamics, burnout, and loneliness. There is comfort in being understood without overexplaining. 

But that same immediacy can also blur the line between processing and performing emotion. Psychologists like Rose suggest that when deeply discussing problems with others becomes the primary way we cope, it reinforces negative emotions. Feelings no longer exist privately before entering the world. They are workshopped communally in real time. 

The Comfort ... and the Cost

There’s a reason group chats feel indispensable. 

In an era defined by loneliness and disconnection, they create immediacy, companionship, and accessibility. Women separated by cities, careers, relationships and timezones can still experience daily emotional closeness through a screen. The group chat becomes proof that someone is always there. 

It also creates something many women deeply crave: shared experience. Certain emotional realities—dating fatigue, friendship grief, workplace dynamics, safety concerns—often feel less isolating when spoken aloud among women who inherently understand them. 

But constant collective processing comes with consequences too. While sharing emotions can create connection, psychologists have found that there is a difference between processing an experience and repeatedly revisiting it. 

The diary asked, “What do I honestly feel?”
The group chat often asks, “Do you guys think that I am in the right here?” 

The distinction matters. 

Because while support is healthy, endless affirmation can become its own kind of reliance. Digital emotion regulation can offer real benefits by helping people feel supported and understood. But when validation becomes the first step in processing every emotion, we may begin relying on outside reassurance before developing our own understanding of what we feel. The comfort is immediate but the reflection may come later, or sometimes not at all.

Sometimes the chat becomes less about understanding emotions and more about reinforcing them. Venting replaces reflection. Reactions replace resolution. Psychologists often distinguish between seeking support and seeking reassurance. While support can help us feel understood and connected, relying on external validation to determine whether our feelings are “right” can make it harder to develop trust in our own emotional judgment.

And because conversations move quickly, emotions can remain suspended rather than fully processed. One moment of distress can be rapidly replaced by another person’s story, another crisis, another screenshot, another spiral. 

The result is a strange paradox: we are more emotionally connected than ever, yet often less capable of sitting alone with our own thoughts. 

Sociologist and MIT professor Sherry Turkle has spent years studying how technology reshapes human connection. In her book Alone Together, she argues that while digital communication allows us to feel connected, constant access to others can also change our relationship with solitude, conversation, and self-reflection. Constant connection can create a sense of companionship while also altering our ability to be alone with our thoughts. The group chat reflects this paradox: it provides community and emotional support, but it may also reduce the moments of solitude where we make sense of our own experiences.

Conclusion

The diary never disappeared. It evolved. 

What was once private reflection has become collective narration. Our emotional lives are now co-authored in real time by the people closest to us—shaped through reactions, opinions, reassurances, and shared analysis. 

And while there is undeniably beauty in that kind of community, there is also tension in constantly needing witnesses for our emotions before fully understanding them ourselves. 

Perhaps the biggest shift is this: 
We no longer ask, “What do I feel?”
We ask, “What do we think about what I feel?”

And that may be the clearest sign yet that emotional processing is no longer a private act of reflection, but a collective experience shaped in real time by the people watching it unfold.

https://www.realsimple.com/is-the-group-chat-the-new-diary-12010220

Here are 20 things I have learned in 20 years of writing An Irish Diary

From irishtimes.com

By Frank McNally

Deadline fears, the law of typos and becoming a master diarist are just some

It’s 20 years since I started writing this column. And no, I don’t know where the time went. But here are 20 things I’ve learned along the way.

1. Working to a daily deadline is hard on the nerves. But the sad truth is, if I didn’t have a deadline, I’d never do anything.

2. That’s because the best idea I have today is never good enough. The one I’ll have tomorrow, where there’s more time to think, is always better.

3. Contrary to the impression I may have given over two decades, there is not an Irish angle to everything. You’d be appalled how many great events have happened down the centuries, the protagonists of which did not have a single Irish great-grandparent between them.

4. Unlimited choice is a tyrant. As anchor tenant of this column, you can write about anything: it’s left entirely up to you. This is a great privilege. And a curse. Sometimes you wish the editor would tell you what to write about. Then you could blame him.

5. They say it takes 10,000 hours of practice to become a master of any discipline. By rough calculation, this should have made me a master diarist sometime around 2019. I can’t say I noticed.

                                                Frank McNally at work, by the Cuban artist Brady Izquierdo

6. The condition of not having any ideas as deadline looms is like hunger: they both gnaw at your stomach in the same way. Comfort eating is an occupational hazard. Unless you take up cigarettes.

7. Not taking up cigarettes in the last 20 years is one of my prouder achievements.

8. Deadline fear never goes away. One night last week, I noticed with a panic that it was 7.30pm and I hadn’t started writing yet. This was impossibly late, barring a miracle. But I couldn’t find my editor to warn him the column wasn’t coming. So the panic deepened until I couldn’t breathe. Then I woke up. It was 3am and I’d been having that stupid dream again.

9. When you write something wrong in a newspaper, there’s often a little voice in your head trying to tell you it’s wrong. You just can’t hear it because of all the other background noise. The little voice will only make itself audible when the noise stops. This typically happens at 3am too, when your mistake has gone to print.

10. Being a columnist is incompatible with a tidy desk. I can carbon-date the layers of paper cuttings on mine, but I’m afraid to throw any out because I must have had a good reason for keeping them in the first place, even if I can’t remember. And every so often, an idea does emerge from the mulch.

11. Daily diarists have no choice but to dramatise their lives. On the plus side, this means that when something genuinely bad happens, assuming it’s not fatal, you often have the consolation of getting a column out of it.

12. There are limits to that – or should be. Jeffery Bernard wrote a long-running column called Low Life, for which his alcoholism was a professional requirement. “The longest suicide note in history” as it has been called, was probably too high a price to pay for material. Although it did inspire a hit West End play. I envy him that.

13. When you’ve written 3,500 columns, you will repeat yourself occasionally. I like to compare this with Monet’s haystacks, painted over and over in different conditions. The excuse works doubly well for me because I have written about actual haymaking on several occasions. But the light had changed each time.

14. Muphry’s (sic) Law of Typos is immutably true. If you comment in print on an interesting or amusing mistake committed by another writer, your piece will inevitably contain an interesting or amusing mistake of its own.

15. Someone once said of the housewife-columnist Erma Bombeck that, whereas others aspired to mere Pulitzer Prizes, her work won “the permanent place of honour in American life: the refrigerator door.” I’m proud to say the occasional Irish Diary has featured on fridge doors too.

16. A few have also been framed on pub walls: the Irish columnist hall of fame.

17. On any subject about which you expound in a newspaper, there is somebody somewhere who knows more than you.

18. But being corrected only adds to your education. Writing this diary four times a week for 20 years has been like doing a PhD in Irish Studies. In American universities, that would have cost me a fortune.

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19. Georges Simenon once claimed that “a writer has nothing to say after the age of forty”. Mickey Spillane disagreed: “If you’re singer, you lose your voice. A baseball player loses his arm. A writer gets more knowledge, and if he’s good, the older he gets, the better he writes.” I’m not sure which is correct but to paraphrase George Orwell on men’s faces at 50, I believe that after 20 years on the job, every daily diarist has the column he deserves.

20. All things considered, it beats working.

https://www.irishtimes.com/opinion/an-irish-diary/2026/05/19/it-beats-working-frank-mcnally-on-20-years-of-writing-a-column/ 

Writing to feel better: why diaries are once again popular in 2026

From ma-grande-taille.com

In the age of all things digital and incessant notifications, taking the time to write for oneself seems like a true luxury. In 2026, the personal journal is experiencing a revival, appealing to young and old alike in search of calm, clarity, and mental well-being. What was long perceived as a teenage activity is becoming a valued tool for reconnecting with oneself.

An ancient practice, brought back into fashion

Keeping a diary is nothing new. For centuries, historical and literary figures have used personal writing to record their thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Today, this habit is experiencing a revival in a context marked by hyperconnectivity. Faced with the constant flow of information and digital overload, writing by hand allows us to slow down, refocus, and take a well-deserved break.

This return is also part of a broader movement towards "analog" activities: reading paper, creative hobbies, or simply the pleasure of touching and manipulating a notebook, away from the screen.

A recognized tool for mental health

Journaling is not limited to a nostalgic activity; it also benefits from scientific support. Psychological research, particularly the work of American psychologist James W. Pennebaker, shows that expressive writing can help better manage stress, structure thoughts, and gain perspective on difficult events.

Writing down your emotions, worries, or successes acts as an emotional release valve, especially during periods of transition or uncertainty. It doesn't replace professional support when needed, but it's an accessible and practical way to improve your daily psychological well-being.

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A space for oneself, completely private

In a world where almost everything is shared online, a personal diary offers a silent refuge. Here, there is no audience, no algorithm, no pressure to validate. This absence of external scrutiny fosters authentic and free expression: one writes without filters, without seeking to please or perform. This need for privacy affects teenagers as much as adults. Many find in it a personal space to reflect, listen to themselves, and understand themselves, sheltered from the eyes of others.

Formats suitable for everyone

The personal journal is no longer limited to a simple "blank notebook." In 2026, journaling comes in many forms: bullet journals, guided journals, structured journals, or dedicated apps. Some offer questions or exercises related to gratitude, emotions, or personal goals, making it easier for beginners to get started.

Meanwhile, creators are sharing their writing routines on social media, democratizing this habit and inspiring new generations to pick up a pen rather than a keyboard.

Writing to get to know oneself better

Beyond its calming effects, journaling fosters self-knowledge. Rereading one's writings allows one to identify patterns, observe changes, or better understand one's reactions to certain situations. This practice is part of a holistic approach to self-care, alongside meditation, therapy, or personal development. And the beauty of this habit lies in its flexibility: it can be daily or occasional, structured or spontaneous.

A simple, sustainable and accessible practice

The success of the personal journal also lies in its simplicity: a notebook and a pen are all you need. No special equipment or specific skills are required. In a world where wellness solutions can sometimes seem complex or expensive, this accessibility makes it a valuable tool.

Far from being a passing fad, the personal journal fulfils a fundamental need: to slow down, express oneself, reflect, and reconnect with oneself. It offers a discreet yet effective respite from an often hectic daily life, allowing for a better understanding of one's experiences and the nurture of one's mind.

In 2026, the personal diary is once again captivating people because it combines intimacy, freedom, and well-being. Simple, accessible, and deeply personal, it remains a silent yet powerful companion for anyone wishing to reconnect with themselves.

https://www.ma-grande-taille.com/en/sante/bien-etre/writing-to-feel-better-why-a-diary-is-appealing-2026-437242

Gen Z: Confessions in the Cloud

From deccanchronicle.com

By Rochelle Crasto

Many youngsters take to digital journaling, but few have the energy and drive to consistently translate their thoughts and emotions into words and write

Earlier, pouring your thoughts and feelings onto paper meant owning a diary — a tangible little book that held your secrets under lock, key, or more realistically, under the bed. But those pages were never truly private. Anyone could stumble upon them. Enter Gen Z, who’s found a sleeker, safer alternative: the Notes app. Password-protected, always within reach, and discreetly tucked behind a screen — it’s the modern diary you don’t have to hide. Your secrets are now just as digital as they are secure.

Earlier, pouring your thoughts and feelings onto paper meant owning a diary — a tangible little book that held your secrets under lock, key, or more realistically, under the bed. (DC)

The After Hours 

This generation has been called many things — anxious, self-aware, over-sharing — but perhaps the most accurate is emotionally literate. They’ve grown up in an age that values mental health conversations, therapy memes, and vulnerability. Digital journaling fits right into that framework. But here’s the thing — after a long day of work, few people have the energy to unpack their emotions, let alone articulate them. Journaling, whether on paper or screen, demands not just honesty but also emotional bandwidth. To write means to process, and processing requires energy that most people don’t have after hours. “I find writing to be quite therapeutic,” says Ayesha Sharma, a senior UI/UX designer. “It’s a form of art, just like design,” she adds.

Maintaining a journal is equally tough. It’s not something our parents teach us to do diligently since birth. Instead, it’s one of those rituals that surfaces during emotionally charged seasons of life. In those moments, writing becomes less about discipline and more about release — a quiet form of distraction, reflection, and de-stressing. “You need to be in the right state of mind if you want to keep your journal alive. It has to be the dedication and the drive to work on yourself and improve for the betterment of your health,” says Dr Shreya Srinivastav, a psychologist.

The Fine Tuning 

There is also the question about effective writing and how much time you should spend at the desk. Platforms like Stoic or Journey are quietly replacing traditional diaries. Why? Because they fit right into the pocket-sized rhythm of our lives. A thought strikes mid-commute? Type it out. A wave of sadness at midnight? Add it to your Notes folder titled “Maybe feelings.” No pens, no pages, no risk of someone finding it under your mattress.

For a generation that broadcasts everything — playlists, selfies, step counts, even Spotify moods — digital journaling offers something radical: privacy. The Notes app is the anti-Instagram. It’s where you say what you really mean, without filters or captions. “There is a sort of peace that you find within words. It’s something that can’t be compared too even if you speak them out loud,” adds Shreya. 

Think of it as the digital equivalent of a whisper — soft, honest, and safe. These digital diaries capture what never makes it online: the ugly crying, the confusion, the little self pep-talks. It's a vulnerability without validation. 

Feelings, But Bite-Sized 

Journaling could be a single line, a short list, or even a fleeting thought typed before bed. There is no need for long paragraphs, no point to be made on purpose and of course, no pressure. 

The beauty of digital journaling lies in its security. Passwords, biometric locks, and Face ID make these private entries feel safer than any paper diary ever could. “Unlike my old journals that my cousin once found,” says Riya Mathew (23), “my Notes app is my fortress. It’s my most honest space.” 

There’s irony, of course. These deeply personal thoughts live on the cloud — vulnerable to data breaches and software updates — yet feel safer than ever before. Maybe safety today isn’t about secrecy; it’s about control. 

The Notes app isn’t just a tool — it’s a mirror. It reflects what’s often left unsaid in group chats and social media posts. And in that reflection, many find clarity. Gen Z may joke about “Notes app apologies” and “Notes app breakdowns,” but underneath the humour lies a profound truth — this is a generation learning to cope through documentation. To write is to release. 

Future Of Feelings 

As journaling apps evolve, AI is slowly stepping in. Platforms now analyse tone, detect emotional patterns, and even suggest prompts like “What are you grateful for today?” or “How did you show resilience this week?” The digital diary is becoming part therapist, part data analyst. 

But while algorithms can detect sadness, they can’t feel it. The essence of journaling — whether in ink or pixels — still lies in the human need to be seen, even if only by ourselves. In a world where everything is shared, digital journaling is the last unshared space. It’s our reminder that some emotions don’t need an audience — just an outlet. 

The Write Approach 

• 8% of people currently keep a journal or diary regularly 

• 22% have kept one in the past (HabitBetter survey) 

• Studies suggest consistent journaling significantly improves mental well-being 

• In a study of online positive-affect journaling, an adherence rate (completing at least one session • per week) was 66.4%. 

• Reports citing up to 25% boost in mood and emotional clarity (Gitnux, 2024) ( Source : Deccan Chronicle )

https://www.deccanchronicle.com/tabloid/hyderabad-chronicle/confessions-in-the-cloud-1922132