Tuesday, January 2, 2024

Today’s the day for young diarists to start writing the story of their lives

From irishexaminer.com

By Terry Prone

2024 may or may not be a happy new year, and we may or may not keep our resolutions. But, on January 1, a new diary is all clean white pages and a sense of glorious possibility 

Terry Prone: Today’s the day for young diarists to start writing the story of their lives

Six-year-old girls were in stationary shops this week picking out aggressively pink diaries with hologram pictures on the front and tin clasps guaranteed not to keep secrets from any prying mother. Picture: iStock


Never mind all that new year resolution stuff. Pointless, the whole thing, and you know it. The truth is that, by February, the gym subscription will be a complete waste of your money, and you’ll have broken your promise to stay off social media and be back frightening and depressing yourself.

What matters, today, is the marvellous possibility of turning the first page of a new diary.

It never fades, that sense of a manageable year, especially if it’s one of those diaries that invites you to note your key details up front. Six-year-old girls were in stationary shops this week picking out aggressively pink diaries with hologram pictures on the front and tin clasps guaranteed not to keep secrets from any prying mother.

Some of the details have changed, of course. Six-year-olds, a few generations ago, used to approach their new diary as if it was a cross between an exam and the application form for a US visa, demanding, as it did, that you insert your height, weight, shoe size, and blood group. Why the blood group was in there was never clear. 

The Anne Frank House in Amsterdam. Generations of youngsters got started on diary-keeping because they read Anne Frank’s record of her time hiding from the Nazis before she and her family were betrayed. Picture: Peter Dejong/AP

The Anne Frank House in Amsterdam. Generations of youngsters got started on diary-keeping because they read Anne Frank’s record of her time hiding from the Nazis before she and her family were betrayed. Picture: Peter Dejong/AP

It wasn’t, after all, much of a possibility that if life caused you to pitch up in A&E with a broken jaw, that you would think to bring your diary with you and helpfully produce it to save them doing a blood test on you. But knowing your blood group meant you were the kind of conscientious kid who would grow up to own, every year, a freshly monogrammed black “leather”-bound copy of the Institute of Public Administration Yearbook and Diary, which preceded Google in knowing everything and having a killer index.

Before you got to that point, though, you owned a pocket diary with sections about horses, swimming, ballet, and ice-skating.

Generations of youngsters — particularly girls under 10 — got started on diary-keeping because they read Anne Frank’s record of her time spent hiding from the Nazis in a secret annexe in Amsterdam before she and her family were betrayed and — most of them — died in concentration camps.

Anne’s diary, a secret within a secret, recorded the pressures on the members of her own family and another clan, locked together in the kind of closeness that prevents peace and privacy.

Frank also did sweetly honest reflection on the joys and miseries of adolescence, which happen no matter what external horrors are going on.

Most of the early diary-keepers abandon the record-keeping task as hard work after a year or so. Pity. Because what a teenager writes with a hand curled around for privacy can be fascinating in its lack of guile — and present a startling disconnect with what is remembered by that same teenager when grown.

I found this out last year when researching my memoir, published just before Christmas.

My memories of childhood and adolescence are of me as a sweet-natured, talented, and popular, if somewhat under-appreciated, young person.

Reading (with difficulty) through three years of Enid Blyton diaries, honestly and illegibly written back in the day, didn’t match that at all. It didn’t amount to establishing a constant of me as Living Bitch, but a lot of Living Bitch was evident.

Diaries written by people who make their living as writers or politicians tend to be performative. An Alistair Campbell doesn’t keep a diary in order to reflect on and learn from what happens to himself and his boss, Tony Blair.

He keeps it in order to eventually publish it, seek to prove that all the right choices were made under duress and — rightly, in Campbell’s case — earn it bestseller status.

Here in Ireland, one former politician kept and continues to keep a daily record of their life. The volumes line up, year after year, decade after decade, and knowing of their very existence would scare the bejasus out of several politicians who served with the diary-keeper without knowing they were recording events with acerbic clarity.

As a first draft of history, these diaries are incomparable and would correct, in their neatly hand-written accuracy, many of the political myths of the diarist’s time.

It’s not going to happen, though. Destruction by fire awaits those precious volumes, because, says their writer, they were never intended for publication and not the biggest advance in history would persuade the author to make them public.

It's a wonder Samuel Pepys hasn't been named as Offender Zero of #MeToo, such is the abuse he disclosed in his diaries in the 1660s. Portrait: Hales/Hulton Archive/Getty

It's a wonder Samuel Pepys hasn't been named as Offender Zero of #MeToo, such is the abuse he disclosed in his diaries in the 1660s. Portrait: Hales/Hulton Archive/Getty

That’s a pity, too, because, by their very nature, political lives veer between what is important at the time, what is important in hindsight (rarely the twain meet) and the personal.

The combination tends to make for deadly good reading.

Although he was a public administrator rather than a politician, one of the most famous, not to say notorious, diarists, illustrates this mix in his work, which affords a startlingly vivid eyewitness account of some of the great historic events of his time.

The decade-long record is, in some ways, resonant with our own times, since Samuel Pepys watched the coronation of King Charles II and survived an epidemic of Bubonic Plague.

Pepys also observed events distinctly of their time, one of those events being the official kidnapping of men going about their business in the streets of London to work the British navy’s ships. When it happened, the wives of “press-ganged” men would gather on the wharves, watched, on one occasion, by Pepys.

“In my life,” he wrote, “I never did see such a natural expression of passion as I did here in some women’s bewailing themselves and running to every parcel of men that were brought, one after another, to look for their husbands, and wept over every vessel that went off, thinking they might be there, and looking after the ship as far as ever they could by moonlight, that it grieved me to the heart to hear them.”

(It’s worth pointing out that, if the force was with them and the wind in the right place, these men had a chance of getting back to their loving wives, which would not have been true of another cohort sent to sea: the British navy, facing a talent deficit, effectively raided old folks’ homes.)

Anne Frank sweetly and honestly reflected on the joys and miseries of adolescence, which happen no matter what external horrors are going on. Had she survived the Holocaust, Anne Frank would have turned 95 later this year. Picture: AP

Anne Frank sweetly and honestly reflected on the joys and miseries of adolescence, which happen no matter what external horrors are going on. Had she survived the Holocaust, Anne Frank would have turned 95 later this year. Picture: AP

Pepys was a smart and self-preservative human. He had so active and promiscuous a sex life as to make one wonder why #MeToo didn’t use him as Offender Zero, recounting as he did, in lascivious detail and coded English, how he managed to get a close female friend of the family to pleasure him in a carriage shared with his own wife and the other woman’s husband.

The coded sections of the diaries show him to have been a dirty old man of Olympic energy, relentless opportunism, and remarkable stamina. They’re also honest in a way which would make him a 21st century pariah, with their admission of “using a little force” to persuade one palpably unwilling woman to deliver what he required.

But today, as the new diaries are opened, it’s all clean white pages and a sense of glorious possibility.

https://www.irishexaminer.com/opinion/columnists/arid-41299279.html

Friday, December 29, 2023

What COVID diaries have in common with Samuel Pepys’ 17th-century plague diaries

From theconversation.com

By Mary Rehman

People keep diaries for all sorts of reasons – to record events, work through difficult situations, or manage stress and trauma. The ongoing COVID inquiry shows diaries also have important political and historic significance. The UK’s former chief scientific adviser Patrick Vallance’s diaries have been a key source of evidence, exposing the chaos within government at the time.

In my PhD research, I’ve been exploring the COVID diaries of ordinary people, as well as diaries kept during the Great Plague of London in 1665-66. Though centuries apart, these diaries are full of insight into how people react to crises, and have surprising similarities.

From the first lockdown in March 2020, media outlets, archive centres and researchers encouraged people to record their pandemic experiences. Even BBC children’s entertainer Mr Tumble urged young viewers to start a diary.

This has resulted in a large number of COVID diaries being made available in archive collections around the UK, plus many more online in the form of blogs or social media. I’ve been looking specifically at 13 COVID diaries donated to the Borthwick Institute for Archives and the East Riding Archives, both in Yorkshire. Most were originally private documents, offering a more spontaneous, honest and intimate portrayal of pandemic experiences than their online counterparts.

Diaries written during the Great Plague are not so numerous. Of the few available, the most valuable is that of naval administrator Samuel Pepys (1633-1703), whose exceptionally detailed and candid journals form by far the most comprehensive first-hand account of plague-stricken London.

I have been reading Pepys’s diaries alongside the modern COVID diaries, and have been struck by the common themes in how people navigated their pandemic experiences.

Recording statistics

Throughout the COVID pandemic, statistics of cases and deaths were everywhere, and were key to how we judged the impact of the virus. As diarist JF wrote on June 5 2020:

It was time to watch the Corona Virus update and I was shocked to find that over 40,000 people have now died from the disease in this country and it’s not over yet!

Relatively accurate information was also widely circulated in 17th-century London via the “bills of mortality” – weekly lists of deaths according to cause and location. Pepys wrote on September 7 1665:

Sent for the Weekely Bill and find 8252 dead in all, and of them, 6978 of the plague - which is a most dreadful Number - and shows reason to fear that the plague hath got that hold that it will yet continue among us.

All of the modern and historical diaries I have looked at include these statistics – some sparingly, others with meticulous regularity.

The blame game

As cases rose, restrictions were enforced and the effects of plague and COVID loomed large in the lives of our diarists, narratives shifted to confusion and blame. Pepys was largely sympathetic to the government’s handling of the plague and, in February 1666, criticised those who flouted the rules and endangered others:

In the heighth of it, how bold people there were to go in sport to one another’s burials. And in spite to well people, would breathe in the faces … of well people going by.

COVID diarists reacted to those who didn’t follow guidelines in a very similar way, as DR wrote in March 2020:

Not everyone is playing it very well, though, with panic-buying, one last night at the pub and a mass exodus to the coast. Stupid and selfish in equal measure.

The response and actions of the UK government, and individual members of parliament, also afforded much attention. An anonymous diarist wrote in May 2020:

People are being allowed out more but the illness is still out there & there’s no treatment or vaccine yet … There are fewer deaths because of social distancing. If they let everyone get on with the ‘new normal’ surely more people will get sick?

Staying positive

A more optimistic theme to emerge in the diaries was the ability to find positivity amid the chaos. Pepys and modern diarists were thankful for the blessings of health, family and security. They praised those who went the extra mile to mitigate the impact of the pandemic on those around them, despite the risk to their own health. An entry from New Year’s Eve in 1665 reads:

My whole family hath been well all this while, and all my friends I know of, saving my aunt Bell, who is dead, and some children of my cozen Sarah’s, of the plague … yet, to our great joy, the town fills apace, and shops begin to open again. Pray God continue the plague’s decrease!

DW’s diary from April 2020 expressed appreciation for time out in nature, as well as sympathy for others living in more difficult situations:

It was lovely walking through the wood. The air was filled with birdsong. It made me realise how lucky I am to live in a village where I can walk from my front door into fields and woods along defined paths. It must be awful to live ten floors up in a high rise block with two children, and not be allowed out except for once per day.

                       Keeping a diary can be good for wellbeing, as well as recording history. Vergani Fotografia/Shutterstock


Comparing COVID with historical events such as plaguethe Spanish flu epidemic and the second world war was a core element of the pandemic narrative, and for good reason. History connects.

It is easy to look around us and see the vast differences between the world we live in now, and that which Pepys traversed almost 400 years ago.

But by exploring the innermost thoughts of people with an element of shared experience, we see that fundamental aspects of the human condition endure. When faced with uncertainty and upheaval, our instincts are to record, find answers, and reclaim joy.

https://theconversation.com/what-covid-diaries-have-in-common-with-samuel-pepys-17th-century-plague-diaries-219274 

Saturday, December 23, 2023

Paperwork: I did it – a journal thanks to a fan and a fountain pen

From shawlocal.com/illinois-valley

By Lonny Cain

“I am thinking about starting a journal.”

So I said in late November last year when I wrote about keeping a journal. But I also noted this column has evolved since I began writing it in November 2007.

“After 15 years, I’m pretty comfortable with these chats we have each week,” I concluded. “I have left a trail of thoughts and memories that do reflect a personal journey. A journal.”

So I was undecided as 2023 approached, but there was a lot of great feedback from many in favour of journaling.

A wonderful email came from a reader who told me her father kept a daily diary for more than 60 years, starting when he was a teen.

“Every day he would write,” she said. … “He would switch from writing to printing, and I could see when his handwriting would change with his aging years.

“I learned thoughts he had that I never knew about. I learned how he always kept himself busy and how his extended family would come to him for advice and for help in projects they had. I learned how he worked so hard in the outside when it was cold and snowy.....

“I have much appreciation that I was able to learn more about my father and his thoughts on life,” she concluded, adding, “It was due to him keeping a diary that in later years I have been keeping a diary, although I call it a journal.”

She uses her journal to write about family and what she enjoys in life, details she wants her children to know. She added a note that turned out to be a trigger for me.

“Oh, I almost forgot,” she said, “I love to use a fountain pen when I do journal, love the sound of the nib as it touches the pages, and it does often touch many pages at a sitting.”

Before I say more, I must tell you about the package that arrived in my mail shortly after my journal column. Inside was a 2023 Sierra Club “engagement calendar” with glossy pages that flipped easily over wire spiral binding.

Inside was this handwritten note: “Lonny: Absolutely, you should keep a journal; you love to write. I’ve been keeping one since 1995 and the only downside is they’re in cursive and no one will be able to read them.

“Consider the Sierra Club 2023, 52 weeks and not digital. Happy writing in 2023 and beyond.” It was signed “A Fan.”

I was tempted but unsure I’d keep the daily pace. Then I thought about that email and remembered the unused fountain pen shoved and forgotten in my desk drawer. This would be the perfect excuse to use it. Writing in that calendar book could be fun.

And it was. … and still is. My first entry was Dec. 31, 2022, New Year’s Eve. I have not missed a day since. Thank you to my fan.

I used the journal only to log my writing progress and related activities. This added pressure on me to make sure I had something to write each day.

When the new year starts I hope to expand. I have several journaling “books” around with undated, blank pages. More room to write. More room to share thoughts each day.

Perhaps I will answer the journal question I was considering a year ago: What would you tell your kids and grandkids about this day? This would help make every day count.

And most definitely, I will be doing this with a fountain pen.

• Lonny Cain, retired managing editor of The Times in Ottawa, also was a reporter for The Herald-News in Joliet in the 1970s. His Paperwork email is lonnyjcain@gmail.com. Or mail The Times, 110 W. Jefferson St., Ottawa, IL 61350.

https://www.shawlocal.com/illinois-valley/2023/12/23/paperwork-i-did-it-a-journal-thanks-to-a-fan-and-a-fountain-pen/

 

Tuesday, December 12, 2023

Here’s how to achieve your new year’s goals

From stvincenttimes.com

By Eddy Smith

The arrival of a new year often ignites a renewed sense of purpose and ambition in many of us. As the calendar flips to 2024, the familiar chorus of “new year, new me” resonates strongly. While there’s absolutely nothing wrong with setting new year’s resolutions, it’s crucial to approach them with a mindset that embraces progress over perfection. Avoiding stagnation is key, but so is recognizing that transformation is a journey, not a destination. This dynamic period offers an opportunity to reflect on past achievements and challenges, setting the stage for a year of growth and self-improvement. However, the pitfall of lofty and undefined goals can lead to early burnout or a sense of failure, which is why a more structured approach is essential for sustainable change.


For those who find themselves overwhelmed by the magnitude of their resolutions or struggle with maintaining momentum, the key lies in organization and clarity. Breaking down your objectives into smaller, manageable parts can significantly reduce the feeling of being overwhelmed. Start by categorizing your goals into different time frames: immediate, short-term, and long-term. This stratification helps in prioritizing tasks and focusing on what’s immediately achievable. Daily, weekly, and monthly goals offer a more practical approach, allowing for regular progress checks and adjustments as needed. The act of writing down these goals shouldn’t be underestimated. It transforms abstract aspirations into tangible targets, providing a visual reminder of what you’re working towards. This simple action creates a stronger bond with your goals, moving them from fleeting thoughts to concrete plans.


Moreover, maintaining a diary, ledger, or any record-keeping tool can significantly bolster your efforts. Regularly reviewing and updating your goals not only helps in tracking progress but also keeps you accountable. This ongoing process of reflection and adjustment is crucial in navigating the challenges and unpredictability of life. It’s important to remember that it’s okay to modify your goals as circumstances change; flexibility is a strength, not a weakness. Celebrate the small victories along the way and don’t be too hard on yourself for the setbacks. The journey towards achieving your new year resolutions is as important as the destination, and every step forward, no matter how small, is a step in the right direction. Keep in mind that personal growth is a continuous process, and every effort you make contributes to a better version of yourself.


In the pursuit of our goals, particularly those set at the dawn of a new year, it’s vital to address the often-overlooked aspect of financial management. Living within one’s means is a fundamental principle that can significantly impact one’s ability to achieve their objectives. Financial strain, indeed, acts as a barrier, hindering progress and causing undue stress. To combat this, a practical approach is to save a portion of your income – ideally, 10 to 15 percent. This isn’t just about preparing for the unforeseen or building a safety net; it’s about cultivating a habit of financial discipline. Saving consistently helps in reducing the anxiety of unexpected expenses and provides a sense of security that is crucial for maintaining focus on your goals. Furthermore, this practice teaches the value of patience and delayed gratification, qualities essential for long-term success. Instead of waiting on the sidelines for a financial miracle, taking proactive steps towards prudent saving and spending can create a more stable and controlled environment for personal growth.

Another transformative principle to consider is the ‘1% principle.’ This concept revolves around the idea of making small, incremental improvements daily, with the aim of being 1% better than the day before. This approach can be applied to virtually any aspect of life, be it health, skills, knowledge, or habits. For instance, if fitness is a goal, incorporating a few extra minutes of exercise each day can lead to substantial progress over time. If intellectual growth is desired, learning a new word daily or dedicating time to read can incrementally expand one’s vocabulary and knowledge. Even in the realm of personal habits, cutting back slightly on indulgences like sugary treats can lead to significant health improvements. The beauty of the 1% principle lies in its simplicity and adaptability. It encourages consistent effort without the pressure of drastic changes, making it a sustainable path to self-improvement. Keeping a record of these small daily achievements not only provides a sense of accomplishment but also serves as a motivational tool, constantly reminding you of the progress made and inspiring you to continue pushing forward.

Delving deeper into the journey of personal growth and habit formation, it’s crucial to understand the science behind it. Habits, both good and bad, are essentially patterns etched into our brains through repetition. When attempting to replace an old habit with a new one, it’s not just about stopping one behaviour and starting another; it’s about rewiring your brain to form new synaptic pathways. This process requires consistent effort and repetition. Studies suggest that it takes about 21 days to a month of daily practice for a new behaviour to start becoming automatic. This time frame is critical as it allows the brain to gradually adapt to the new pattern, making the task progressively easier to perform. The initial phase is often the hardest, as it involves breaking free from the comfort zone of established behaviours. However, understanding this neurological aspect can provide a sense of control and predictability to the process, making the challenge of changing habits seem less daunting.


It’s also important to draw inspiration from the experiences of others who have successfully overcome similar challenges. Change, especially breaking away from deep-rooted habits, is a universally challenging experience, but it’s far from impossible. A powerful example of breaking barriers is the story of the four-minute mile. For a long time, it was believed to be an unachievable feat, a physical limit beyond the capabilities of a human being. However, this perception was shattered when Roger Bannister ran a mile in under four minutes. This achievement not only broke a physical barrier but also a psychological one, proving that limits are often self-imposed. Since then, thousands have accomplished what was once considered impossible. This story serves as a metaphor for personal challenges; what may seem insurmountable at first can be conquered with persistence and belief. Remembering this can be a source of motivation and reassurance when facing your own hurdles. It’s a reminder that the only true limits are the ones we set for ourselves, and with dedication and the right approach, even the most challenging of goals can be achieved.


This opinion piece ultimately underscores the vital importance of committing to your personal development consistently. The essence of this journey is in ‘showing up’ every day, not just in the physical sense, but with a mindset geared towards continuous improvement. Embrace the new year with a resolution to prioritize your growth and education, breaking away from the self-limiting beliefs of “I can’t.” This shift in mindset is foundational for facing and conquering the diverse challenges that life inevitably presents. It’s about more than just setting goals; it’s about nurturing a lifestyle that fosters personal growth. This includes ensuring you get enough sleep and stay hydrated – simple yet powerful acts that significantly impact your physical and mental well-being. Equally, it’s crucial to manage your mental health proactively. This means being mindful of the content you consume and the company you keep, choosing influences that uplift and propel you forward rather than those that stagnate your growth.

Moreover, regardless of your religious beliefs, making time for spirituality or personal reflection is essential. This practice can manifest in various forms, from prayer and meditation to quiet contemplation or engaging in activities that connect you to something greater than yourself. It’s about finding a sense of peace and purpose amidst the chaos of everyday life. Community involvement is another aspect that shouldn’t be overlooked. Being part of a community provides a sense of belonging and can be a source of support, inspiration, and motivation. It’s a reflection of the adage, “you are the company you keep,” suggesting that our communities often mirror our values and priorities. As you navigate through the year, remember that personal betterment is not a solitary journey. It involves a holistic approach that includes physical health, mental well-being, spiritual peace, and social connection. By prioritizing these aspects, you create a balanced and fulfilling life, capable of weathering the storms and celebrating the triumphs that each new year brings.

https://www.stvincenttimes.com/heres-how-to-achieve-your-new-years-goals/ 

Tuesday, November 28, 2023

The power of dream journaling: 5 ways writing down dreams can transform your mental health

From hindustantimes.com

Writing down your dreams in a diary can help one analyse them and recognise the patterns over time. Know the mental health benefits of recording dreams

Dream journaling is a powerful tool for self-discovery and growth, especially in the modern era of stress and uncertainty. Recording your dreams in a journal can open a window into the subconscious, offering a glimpse into troubling thoughts, past traumas, and present dilemmas. Recalling the dreams of last night can uncover hidden and deep-seated emotions that may have come to forefront through the process of dreaming. Most of us do not remember our dreams which means that we may be losing out on precious insights from our subconscious that could transform our life. Dream journaling is said to improve self-awareness and mindfulness which could also enrich our mental health. 

Writing down your dreams in a diary can help one analyse them and recognise the patterns over time. This could aid in dealing with personal struggles and discover areas of growth. Besides, staying connected with your dreams can also work wonders for your cognitive functions through increased mental clarity and focus. Dream journaling is also an effective way to release pent up emotions, stress and fears. This can help cut down stress and in long run play a positive role in your overall health.

How to do dream journaling

To dream journal, one needs to simply write down all the details of last night's dreams that they can recall, first thing after waking up. Experts say your dream recall is the best if you right them down immediately after opening your eyes or else there's a great possibility of forgetting them.

"Dream journaling is a practice where individuals record their dreams in a journal or digital platform on a daily basis. The primary purpose of dream journaling is to document the content and details of one's dreams, providing a tangible record that can be reflected upon later. This practice is often associated with personal growth, self-discovery, and exploring the subconscious mind. The process of dream journaling typically involves jotting down as many details as possible immediately upon waking from a dream. This includes the narrative, emotions, characters, settings, and any other significant elements that were experienced during the dream. The goal is to capture the ephemeral nature of dreams before they fade from memory," says Dr Jyoti Kapoor, Founder-Director and Senior Psychiatrist, Manasthali.

"Dream journaling is a therapeutic practice that involves recording and reflecting upon the content of one’s dreams. This process is often undertaken by individuals seeking to explore the subconscious mind and gain insights into their thoughts, emotions, and experiences. Keeping a dream journal typically entails documenting the details of dreams, including vivid imagery, emotions, and any recurring themes. The act of writing down dreams serves as a form of self-reflection, allowing individuals to examine their innermost thoughts and feelings in a symbolic and abstract context," says Dr. Gorav Gupta, Co-founder of Emoneeds.

Purpose of dream journaling

Dream journaling is believed to have several mental health benefits. Notably, it can enhance self-awareness by bringing attention to subconscious thoughts and emotions that may be influencing waking life.

"Analysing dream patterns over time may reveal recurring themes or unresolved issues, providing valuable clues to personal challenges or areas for growth. Additionally, engaging in regular dream journaling can improve dream recall and cognitive functions, as the practice requires mental clarity and focus. Moreover, dream journaling is considered a therapeutic outlet for emotional expression. Dreams often tap into deep-seated emotions, and expressing these feelings on paper can be cathartic. This process may aid in stress reduction, anxiety management, and the processing of unresolved traumas," says Dr Gupta.

"In the fast-paced world we live in, where stress and anxiety often take centre stage, finding effective ways to support our mental health is crucial. Amid the various strategies available, one often-overlooked yet powerful tool is dream journaling. Keeping a record of your dreams can be a transformative practice that not only enhances your understanding of your subconscious mind but also contributes significantly to your overall mental well-being," says Rashmi Bagri, Senior Psychologist, Helpline Team.

To dream journal, one needs to simply write down all the details of last night's dreams that they can recall, first thing after waking up(Freepik)


Benefits of dream journaling for your mental health

Dr Kapoor explains how writing down your dreams can help enhance your mental health.

Dream journaling can help in the following ways:

  • Regularly documenting and reflecting on your dreams promotes self-awareness by revealing underlying emotions, fears, and desires. This heightened self-awareness can facilitate a better understanding of your subconscious mind and, in turn, your waking thoughts and behaviours.
  • Dreams often serve as a channel for processing emotions and unresolved issues. By recording and analysing your dreams, you may gain insight into emotional patterns and challenges, allowing you to address and work through them consciously.
  • Writing down dreams may help alleviate stress by allowing you to externalize and explore feelings that may be difficult to confront in waking life.
  • Dreams often present scenarios that may be metaphorical representations of real-life challenges. By dissecting and understanding the symbolism in your dreams, you may gain fresh perspectives on issues, potentially aiding problem-solving and decision-making in your waking life.
  • The act of recording dreams encourages mindfulness, as it requires you to be present and attentive to your inner experiences. This mindfulness can extend to waking life, fostering a greater sense of presence and awareness in day-to-day activities.

Rashmi Bagri shares how dream journaling works and ways it can transform your life:

1. Insight into the subconscious

Dreams are the language of the subconscious mind. By maintaining a dream journal, you create a tangible record of the thoughts, emotions, and images that play out in your dreams. Analysing these entries over time can provide valuable insights into your deepest fears, desires, and unresolved issues. This self-awareness can be a key step in understanding and addressing aspects of your mental health.

2. Stress reduction

Dream journaling can act as a therapeutic outlet, allowing you to unload the emotional baggage that accumulates during the day. The act of writing about your dreams provides a safe space for processing and releasing pent-up emotions. This release can be cathartic, reducing stress levels and promoting a sense of emotional balance.

3. Identification of patterns

As you consistently document your dreams, you may begin to notice recurring themes, characters, or scenarios. These patterns can offer valuable clues about your mental state and underlying concerns. Recognizing these repetitions enables you to address and work through specific issues, fostering personal growth and emotional resilience.

4. Enhancing creativity

Dreams often tap into the creative reservoir of the mind. By exploring and recording your dreams, you may find inspiration for creative endeavours. Engaging with your dreams in a creative way, such as through writing or art, can be a fulfilling and enjoyable means of self-expression, providing a positive impact on your mental health.

5. Improved sleep quality

A consistent practice of dream journaling can contribute to better sleep quality. By acknowledging and processing the content of your dreams, you may find that your mind becomes more at ease, leading to a more restful night's sleep. Quality sleep is closely linked to mental health, and dream journaling can play a role in achieving that balance.

"In the pursuit of mental wellness, it's essential to explore diverse avenues that resonate with individual needs. Dream journaling offers a unique and personalized approach, inviting you to delve into the rich tapestry of your subconscious mind. As you embark on this journey of self-discovery, you may find that the simple act of recording your dreams has far-reaching benefits, contributing to a more profound understanding of yourself and a healthier, more balanced mental state. So, grab a notebook, pen your dreams, and unlock the potential for enhanced mental well-being. Your mind might just hold the key to a healthier, happier you," concludes Bagri.

https://www.hindustantimes.com/lifestyle/health/the-power-of-dream-journaling-5-ways-writing-down-dreams-can-transform-your-mental-health-101700888088536.html