Thursday, September 29, 2022

Intimacy and Manipulation: A Reading List of Fictional Diaries

From lithub.com

At its best, the relationship between novelist and reader is an intimate one. Can I tell you something? whispers the writer, and the reader whispers back, Please do… Of all the forms that the novel can take, the diary is surely the most confiding of all; it’s as if the intimacy level has been turned up to max. Can I tell you something really private; something I wouldn’t share with anyone else…?

A diary has the potential to be funny, by showcasing the idiotic lapses and random thoughts we’re all prone to, but too embarrassed to admit. It can be exciting: a piece of on-the-spot reportage from an eyewitness who was right there today and will be right there again tomorrow. It can be a supremely manipulative text, forcing the reader’s trust, on the grounds that private outpourings are aways going to be authentic. (Are they, though? And what does it mean to call any piece of writing “private”?)

These ten novels could not be more diverse—ranging from the hilarious, to the confidential, to the downright sinister—but they all have the diary format in common.

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E.M. Delafield, The Diary of a Provincial Lady

The twee title—and, in the case of my copy, the flowery pink cover design—does this novel no favors. It’s not twee; it’s a work of dryly comic genius. The eponymous heroine is a harried housewife and would-be writer, juggling work, children and social life in a rural village, in pre-war England. Her woes are very humdrum—feeling fed up with her dowdy old clothes, for example, or failing to gel with her grumpy husband, or thinking of a witty put-down long after her snobbish visitor has left—but the provincial lady turns everything to comedy gold with her crisply observant style.

Margaret Forster, Diary of an Ordinary Woman

An overview of twentieth-century history that manages to be involving, lucid and concise: this is a tall order for any writer, but Margaret Forster does it, to great effect, in the form of a fictional diary. The “ordinary” woman in question is Millicent King, who begins writing at the age of thirteen, on the eve of the First World War, and continues through to 1995, chronicling her own personal griefs and joys alongside the great events that shook the world during that remarkable century. As a means of getting to grips with history the diary makes total sense, because it echoes the way in which we all experience the world. Shared, public occasions never exist in a vacuum; they are only ever visible through the prism of our own private concerns—and vice versa.

Alice Walker, The Color Purple

Strictly speaking, The Color Purple is an epistolary novel, but since Celie’s letters are addressed to God it seems fair to include it in this list. “Dear God” comes pretty close to “Dear Diary”, in that both forms of address imagine an idealised audience, with boundless reserves of sympathy, patience and understanding. Celie is certainly in need of a good listener; her life as an impoverished African-American teenager in rural Georgia is harsh beyond measure. Walker’s novel records Celie’s struggles against—and eventual triumph over—a society that seeks to brutalize her physically, mentally and emotionally. Whereas a third-person narrative might tend towards showing Celie’s sufferings, the “Dear God” format allows Celie to use the act of writing in order to think her way through events. Keeping a diary becomes, in itself, an assertion of will.

Wilkie Collins, The Woman in White

Perhaps the most sensational of all Victorian “sensation” novels, The Woman in White purports to be a document patched together from various sources, one of which is Marian Halcombe’s diary. Marian is an extraordinary heroine by any standards, but especially when you consider the nineteenth-century norms she’s busting: not only is she permitted to have a masculine face, complete with large jaw and nascent moustache, and to avoid being glammed-up and/or married off by the end, she is also the most intelligent, courageous, loving and resourceful character in the novel. When I read The Woman in White as a teenager, I was very jealous of Marian’s diary: unlike me, she always had something thrilling to write about (when did I ever get the chance to climb about on the roof of a stately home, in the rain, in order to eavesdrop on a pair of villains?), on top of which, her diary had the propulsive narrative structure that mine consistently lacked. Somehow, at the time, it didn’t occur to me that the contrast wasn’t my fault: real diaries can but plod from day to day; only the fictional ones can carry a tightly-honed story.

Bram Stoker, Dracula

Dracula is another Victorian novel composed entirely of letters, diaries and newspaper articles. It opens with the journal of a solicitor named Jonathan Harker as he travels to Transylvania to meet a mysterious new client, at which point events take a turn for the bloodthirsty—in an entirely literal sense. The advantage of the diary format is clear: the reader is able to watch Count Dracula’s horrific schemes unfold with a day-by-day, hour-by-hour immediacy, and from a variety of perspectives. If there’s a disadvantage, it’s in the clash between the fictional narrator’s presumed state of mind, and the actual author’s desire to write lucidly and well, with a slow ratcheting-up of tension. Within the space of a few hours, Harker finds himself imprisoned inside a gothic castle, at the mercy of a man who is able to crawl around like a bat on a perpendicular wall, and very nearly loses his life in an erotic encounter with three vampire women. Do these freakish events mess with his prose style? Not one bit. Aside from the occasional gentlemanly exclamation (“God preserve my sanity!”) Jonathan remains a diligent and cogent diarist.

Gillian Flynn, Gone Girl

[SPOILER ALERT] A secret diary is the most confessional and intimate form of writing, and therefore it’s instinctive to want to trust the diarist’s voice. Why would someone be lying when they are only writing for themselves? In Gone Girl—twistiest of thrillers—Flynn uses this intuitive trust to great effect, confusing readers into believing that they really, truly know Amy Dunne, because they’ve read her "secret" diary. Turns out they're wrong...

George and Weedon Grossmith, The Diary of a Nobody

“Why should I not publish my diary?” Charles Pooter demands, at the start of this deftly comic satire on life in 1890’s suburbia. “I have often seen reminiscences of people I have never even heard of, and I fail to see—because I do not happen to be a ‘Somebody’—why my diary should not be interesting.” Quite. When it comes to keeping a diary, there is always the potential for pomposity: what, after all, makes any of us believe that our daily thoughts and actions are sufficiently important to be placed on record? Charles Pooter is a middle-class London clerk, with worries and concerns that are far from grandiose (“Will the butcher sue me, after tripping over my boot-scraper?” “Do my ill-fitting trousers make me look like a sailor?” “Would it be a good idea to paint the bath-tub red?”), but for all his pretentions, he is oddly endearing. Perhaps it’s because he’s so recognisable. There’s a little bit of Charles Pooter in every one of us who has ever kept a diary.

Sue Townsend, The Secret Diary of Adrian Mole aged 13 ¾

Although written a century later, and purporting to be the outpourings of an adolescent boy rather than a middle-aged man, this hilarious YA novel is a close cousin to the Grossmith brothers’ Diary of a Nobody. A self-styled Intellectual with a loathing for Margaret Thatcher, a terror of acne, and a passion for Pandora Braithwaite, Adrian Mole is a wonderfully Pooter-ish mixture of pretension and lovability. Under the cover of humour, Townsend’s novel also offers a glimpse into working-class Midlands life during a difficult decade for Britain, when unemployment was rife and class division very real.

Dodie Smith, I Capture the Castle

A diary is so often a teenager’s best friend, so it’s the perfect vehicle for a coming-of-age story. I Capture the Castle may not be as laugh-out-loud funny as Adrian Mole, but it’s humorous and touching in its own quiet way. In 1930s England, Cassandra Mortmain records the ups and downs of life in a crumbling castle, where she resides with her eccentric family. Their lives are changed, for better and for worse, by the arrival of two dashing American brothers, Simon and Neil Cotton. I discovered this book when I was about fourteen—the perfect age—and fell in love from the very first line. “I write this sitting in the kitchen sink,” Cassandra tells us, engagingly. “That is, my feet are in it. The rest of me is on the draining board.”

Helen Fielding, Bridget Jones’s Diary

A very 1990s take on Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, and one of the defining books of the decade, it’s difficult to imagine this novel in any other format. Bridget’s insecurities, and her preoccupation with daily calorie-intake, cigarette-count and weight gained or lost, are the kinds of things a heroine can only really confide in the pages of her dairy. Fielding’s writing is so good that the plot—Bridget’s gradual disillusionment with caddish Daniel Cleaver, and growing appreciation of Mark Darcy’s true worth—seems to unfold effortlessly, in and among the hilarious descriptions of Turkey Curry buffets, Tarts and Vicars parties, and blue-string soup.

https://lithub.com/intimacy-and-manipulation-a-reading-list-of-fictional-diaries/ 

Sunday, September 11, 2022

Portsmouth, New Hampshire: Naval Shipyard worker's diaries cover 50 years on seacoast up to 1907

From eu.seacoastonline.com

Robin Silva  |  Portsmouth Athenaeum

In 2021, local historian Larry B. Keech called the Portsmouth Athenaeum with a simple question. 

Would the Athenaeum be interested in a digital transcription of a set of more than 40 diaries penned by local resident Supply Foss Trefethen? These diaries recorded day-to-day life in Rye and Portsmouth spanning the 50 years from 1856 to 1907. They capture events from the mundane to the notable: notes on the local weather; births, deaths, and marriages of friends and family; working at the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard; references to shipwrecks; and commentary on local and national politics - including assassinations, executions and the Civil War. 

So, absolutely yes, the Athenaeum was interested.

Supply Foss Trefethen (1833-1907) kept diaries for five decades. A shipwright at the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard, he was also was a house carpenter and a Rye farmer.
Supply Foss Trefethen (1833-1907) kept diaries for five decades. A shipwright at the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard, he was also a house carpenter and a Rye farmer.  
COURTESY OF THE RYE HISTORICAL SOCIETY

Who is Supply Foss Trefethen?
Supply Foss Trefethen, a resident of Rye, was born in 1833 and died in 1907. He wore many hats: son, brother, husband, father, shipwright, house builder, carpenter, farmer, landlord and politician among others. 

He saw the change at the Navy Yard from wooden ships to ironclads in the 1860s and steel or iron ships required by the Navy in the 1880s.  He witnessed the electric trolley line that ran right by his house. By 1907, he bemoans the “tombiles” (automobiles) that increasingly raced down the street. He served as a member of the New Hampshire House of Representatives for Rye in 1905. The same year he discusses the “great blast” of the blowing up of Henderson’s Point to improve navigation in Portsmouth Harbor.

What's in the diaries?

The diaries start in 1856 when the 23-year-old Trefethen was living with his older brother, Joseph P. Trefethen, in Portsmouth at 1 Dearborn St. In January 1857, he notes the Piscataqua “freezing” and walking across the ice to Kittery, Maine, with friends. 

Throughout the years, he describes the major fires in Portsmouth, Rye and Kittery. During the Civil War, he follows the war campaign and is very forthcoming in his opinions of the success of those efforts.

For 40 years, he worked as a shipwright at the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard. However, employment at the Yard was inconsistent, being dependent on government contracts and funding. So like many civilian Naval Yard workers, Supply supplemented his income as a house carpenter and farmer.

Supply bought land and built a couple houses, one on Sagamore Avenue in Rye and one on Lincoln Avenue in Portsmouth. 

This house at 366 Sagamore Raod in Rye was byuilt by Supply Foss Trefethen. At the intersection of Sagamore and Clark Avenue, the spot was once know as Trefethen's Corner.
This house at 366 Sagamore Road in Rye was built by Supply Foss Trefethen. At the intersection of Sagamore and Clark Avenue, the spot was once known as Trefethen's Corner 
COURTESY OF THE PORTSMOUTH ATHENAEUM

He also worked for Frank Jones at the brewery and worked extensively for Alfred Langdon Elwyn at the Langdon-Elwyn farm (now the Urban Forestry Center).

As a farmer he supplemented his grocery budget and his income. Over the years, he expanded his acreage. He grew vegetables, especially potatoes, had fruit trees, and raised chickens. Toward the end of his life, he had 75 to 80 chickens and was selling eggs and meat regularly to friends, neighbours, and the Rockingham Hotel. 

Supply Trefethen was a diverse and active member of the community. He was also observant and opinionated. 

As a shipwright, he described the working day at the Portsmouth Naval Shipyard, including several workplace accidents, some resulting in death. 

As a farmer, he noted the weather on a daily basis and the price of eggs. 

As a resident, he recorded the evolutions of families, neighbourhoods and daily life. 

As a politician, he considered the effects of local and national events. 

All of these notes, experiences and musings are a wealth of information to genealogists and historians.

Transcribing, cataloguing Trefethen's diaries

Though maintaining a diary was common in the 19th century, not many diaries have survived over the decades. In fact, many diarists directed that their diaries be destroyed upon death. 

For years, Larry Keech has been transcribing the Trefethen diaries, owned by the Rye Historical Society (which has the originals in its collection). 

He not only deciphered the scrawling penmanship, but also edited for easier reading, and provided annotations for genealogy and historical context based on his extensive research. 

A photo of Supply Foss Trefethen's gravesite in Portsmouth's South Cemetery.
A photo of Supply Foss Trefethen's gravesite in Portsmouth's South Cemetery.  
COURTESY OF THE FIND A GRAVE WEBSITE

Portsmouth Athenaeum librarian Robin Silva then catalogued the 1,000-plus-page transcript, building a searchable cross-reference of people, places and events that is now available to researchers on the Portsmouth Athenaeum website portsmouthathenaeum.org

With 450 named people noted as well as almost 175 businesses, ships and localities, this is a rich look at life in the local area in the second half of the 19th century.

The Portsmouth Athenaeum, 9 Market Square, is a membership library and museum founded in 1817. The research library and Randall Gallery are open Tuesday through Saturday, 1 to 4 p.m. Masks are required. For more information, call 603-431-2538 or visit www.portsmouthathenaeum.org.

An excerpt from Supply Trefethen's diary

“Today has been the coldest day on record in Portsmouth. This morning at 6 o’clock the thermometer was 27 below zero in some parts of the city. There never was known to be so much ice in the Piscataqua River before. It is passable by ice from Pray’s wharf to Badger’s Island. But a little way above, hundreds have crossed and crossed for the fun or oddity of the thing on the ice, keeping up the sport all the forenoon, I was one of the numbers. In the morning I thought I would take a walk over to the mechanic’s shipyard on Nobles Island (where I work when we have the right temperature) to see if all was right and meeting some friends. They invited me to cross for the fun of the thing. I accepted and we embarked and had a fine trip as all the ice was quite smooth. We started from Nobles Island just at the stern of the ship on the stock and went to Badger’s Island, crossed Badger’s Island and back then down to the Navy yard and back, thinking it quite a novelty to hand down to antiquity.”

https://eu.seacoastonline.com/story/entertainment/2022/09/10/portsmouth-nh-athenaeum-portsmouth-naval-shipyard-worker-diary/7999457001/


Monday, September 5, 2022

Do you maintain a journal or diary?

From rvtravel.com

Do you write down your thoughts, or keep a diary of your activities on a regular basis? That’s what we are curious about today.

Here’s a definition of each of these terms we found doing a Google search. We think it’s pretty good. It says:

“A journal and a diary are similar in kind but differ in degree. Both are used to keep personal records, but diaries tend to deal with the day to day, more data collection really, and journals with bigger picture reflection/aspiration.”

Here’s an example, also found with a Google search:

“Regarding work and career, a diary might be about appointments, meetings and tasks completed. A journal, on the other hand, might be about big picture things, like your career goals, dreams and aspirations.”

“In a journal, you might write as if you were writing to a very dear, best friend, with what was on your mind.”

https://www.rvtravel.com/poll1068b/

 

Saturday, September 3, 2022

Dear diary: You belong in everyone’s lives

From baylorlariat.com

By Kameron Brooke | Reporter

At some point, we’ve all probably kept some sort of diary or journal — it’s OK, you can admit it. It’s not a bad thing. Whether it’s been kept up with consistently is another discussion, but overall, keeping a journal gives you a safe place where you have the luxury of being truly honest without the worry of a reaction.

In my experience, I have always been someone who loves to talk and express my thoughts. Keeping a journal was always second nature to me. As my thoughts come, I put them on paper and then let them go. I’ve had over 30 journals in my life, and each one reflects a different phase through growth, pain and happiness.

Journaling has become such an essential practice to me that I can’t go a day without it. Why would you want to do that? A valid question — and you certainly don’t have to — but journaling does encourage mindfulness, which helps you to be present, keep perspective and regulate emotions.

According to the Greater Good Magazine, “people had been keeping diaries long before scientists thought to put them under microscopes. But in the past 30 years, hundreds of studies uncovered the benefits of putting pen to paper with your deepest thoughts and feelings.”

Journaling is a simple practice that provides so many benefits and can open doors to other aspects of a healthy lifestyle. Getting started is simple: Make an effort to write every day. If you set aside a few minutes every day to write, it will help make a habit of journaling.

There’s no right or wrong way to keep one; write whatever feels good to you, as it is your private place to discuss and create whatever you want. There is truly power in opening up.

I understand why many people avoid journaling. It can be scary to face ourselves, not only confronting which external factors brought negativity into our lives but also being honest about the negativity we may have brought into someone else’s life.

It almost seems better to keep one’s emotions inside or to let them pass, and they will eventually pass, but they will always come again. So, it’s extremely beneficial to pursue a greater sense of meaning through journaling.

It’s important to understand journaling is a problem-solving tool. The negative emotions you were feeling prior to writing may still linger, and the problem may still exist. That being said, journaling forces you to organize your thoughts instead of having a collection of ideas and emotions circling in your mind.

A major part of our decision-making lies in our subconscious and intuition, which can be difficult to access, so working through one’s thoughts on a page creates clarity and makes us better at making conscious decisions.

Journaling is certainly not a guaranteed fit for everyone; it takes all types of people to make the world go round. However, this is one practice that is guaranteed to bring benefits. Hopefully, keeping a journal can even be the source of inspiration, self-acceptance, encouragement and problem-solving it has been for me for so many years.

I’ve seen the darkest and brightest parts of myself through my journals, and it has allowed for an immense amount of self-acceptance. We all have strengths and weaknesses; it’s important to understand what they are in order to improve our lives and how we function in each other’s lives.

I encourage everyone to keep a journal. It warms my heart to see fellow humans practicing something so beneficial. Having read this piece, if you’re not online ordering your next journal right now, what are you doing? Practice makes permanent. 

https://baylorlariat.com/2022/09/01/dear-diary-you-belong-in-everyones-lives/